Over some coffee this afternoon, I contemplated what I have now coined the āFilled to All Availableā or āFTAAā syndrome.Ā Hereās what it means, basically.Ā As humans, we tend towards and often feel more comfortable within defined boundaries.Ā Ambiguities and uncertain limits force us to think, to apply sometimes-risky judgement calls, and in our rushed and often bureaucratic society, that can be stressful.Ā So, we thrive in a FTAA environment; we fill up our desks, our closets, our schedules to capacity.Ā If we get larger desks, bigger closets, or unexpected free time, somehow we find a way to fill or fritter away the excess space.Ā At an all-you-can-eat buffet, we tend to think of āgetting our moneyās worthā andāyou guessed itāfilling up rather than lightly sampling.Ā We eat until we are not just satisfied, but stuffed.Ā We store junk until our apartments are bursting at the seams.Ā We live a life that is āFilled to All Available.ā
What does this actually mean?Ā Well, for starters, it suggests that making more money, getting a bigger house, and buying bigger boxes of chocolates at Costco will not necessarily make us happier, healthier, or more productive.Ā On the flip side, it suggests that there are key advantages to thinking and doing Less in order to simplify and de-clutter our lives.
One way to go about doing this is to increase the proportion of shared or borrowed resources in our life and decrease the amount of things āowned.āĀ This can be electronic (renting music, a la Yahoo Music Unlimited instead of āowningā [sic] music via iTunes), small-scale physical (borrowing books instead of buying them), and large-scale physical (car-sharing instead of owning a car).
Beyond this, there are mental changes that can be made as wellā¦ primarily pushing oneself away from a college-era mentality of hoarding and scarcity.Ā Dividing up a large chocolate bar into smaller pieces and storing or giving away the majority.Ā Visiting only two cities (for longer) instead of five, despite having an unlimited Eurail pass.Ā Resisting the temptation to check Deals Web sites five times a day to buy stuff we donāt need with rebates weāll forget to file.
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The lesson at the end of the day:Ā Think not what you have the resources to get or do.Ā Think instead of what you need.Ā Then think again.Ā Avoid the āFilled to All Availableā syndrome by decluttering your life, minimizing excess, and regaining focus.
Easier said than done, but very, very worthwhile.
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What are ways in which youāve found your life āFilled to All Availableā?Ā What have you done to combat this?
